Ethical Slut

I found a lot of people drawing inspiration and love for this post…so it’s now a page added to the site for all to find easily and read.

I’ve had a lot of people in my life misinterpret what I mean when I say I am a slut. Of course I can understand why…but I hate that the word has been made into such a demeaning phrase.

I guess you could say that the term “slut” has many meanings to not only many different people but for many different parts of people. I’m a slut in a lot of ways…and damn proud of it. An Ethical Slut above all though, and no, that’s not an oxymoron.

Best way I can explain my slut is taken from a profile I have out there…

“I love to give myself over to someone else completely. My focus is to please those I’m with. It’s not about the sex, the orgasm or just the freedom I feel from it. It’s about giving someone everything I am so completely that they feel free, peaceful and complete. This is more than just the physical release for me. It’s a spiritual experience…not only for me but for them. I am here to give who and what I am to those in my life. My focus is to be that personal, spiritual slut…the one so many spend their whole life looking for…the one that heals…the one that completes….the one that gives freely.”

You see, I don’t just give all of myself physically…I give all of myself in every possible way. You know when you’ve gotten to see and experience the true slut within me. You can see her in my eyes, hear her in my voice and feel her in my touch. My slut is confident, beautiful, powerful, comforting, mystical, spiritual, intimate, passionate and true. When you have gotten all these things from me, you’ve gotten the slut within, the essence of who I am. It is my sexuality reaching out, and not just seeking the physical pleasure, but the emotional and mental pleasure. My slut is the soul piercing passion and beauty within us all. She is my love and desire.

Difference is, my slut won’t come to just anyone…but when she does…she gives her all. She’s free to love and be loved. She’s free to give and receive. She is everything anyone wants and needs and everything a woman could be. She is delicate, even if intense. She gives to more than one person, she loves more than one at any given time.

The mistake you make is when you think the slut within will take you, simply because I call myself a slut…or because you think I’m your slut because I am Poly. It doesn’t happen that way. That’s where you misunderstand me. That’s where you misunderstand the definition and meaning of my sexuality.

  1. Bravo. My sentiments exactly.

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